Jeffrey C. Bender

Jeffrey C. Bender

Saturday, February 20th, 1954 - Thursday, November 21st, 2019
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Jeffrey C. Bender, of Winterview Dr., Arcade, died Thursday November 21, 2019 at his home at the age of 65.

He was born February 20, 1954 in Buffalo, New York a son of Wilma (nee Vreeland) and the late James Bender.

He was a retired senior maintenance mechanic for Hospira in Cheektowaga, was a member of the NRA and was a supporter of the VFW and the Canter for Cancer.

His wife - Donna M. (nee Gierke) Bender whom he married September 22, 1973 in Tonawanda died October 13, 2009.

He is survived by a son - James (Sue) Bender of Wellsville, a daughter - Carrie (Jason) Roth of East Aurora; four grandchildren - Genevieve, Alexander, Caylie and Kendall; his mother - Wilma Bender of Tonawanda; a sister - Mary Bender of Tonawanda and several nieces and nephews.

There are no calling hours. A memorial service will be held Saturday December 14, 2019 at 11 am in W. S. Davis Funeral Home, 358 W. Main St., Arcade. Burial will be in Arcade Rural Cemetery. Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society.
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Service Details

  • Service

    Saturday, December 14th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Saturday, December 14th, 2019 11:00am
    W. S. Davis, Inc. Funeral Home
    358 W. Main St.
    ARCADE, NY 14009
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    There are no calling hours.
  • Interment

    Arcade Rural Cemetery


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Private Condolence

Jim Bender

Posted at 04:09am
Until We Meet Again
by Unknown

Each morning when we awake
we know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
As we try to carry on.

Our hearts still ache with sadness
and many tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know.

Our thoughts are always with you,
your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.

There will always be a heartache,
and often a silent tear,
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.

If tears could make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.

We hold you close within our hearts,
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.

Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing will be the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Craig Baker

Posted at 01:34pm
Craig Baker
So sorry for your loss. Jeff was a good friend and co-worker. he will be missed.

Lori Stutzman

Posted at 11:27am
To Mary & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Love, Lori

Debra Stasio

Posted at 01:35pm
Jeff was our friend. He was kind and always around to lend a helping hand. I will miss our talks and his great sense of humor. You will be greatly missed. From Debra and Skye.
Jeff's family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Carrie Roth Posted at 01:02am

Our Dad talked about you and Skye all the time. She really brought him so much happiness. We found her drawings and cards on his mantle as well - she obviously meant a lot to him. Thank you for bringing so much light to his life. We know it meant a lot to him ❤

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